Every Question in the Quiz

Up to 152 questions across 14 categories. The exact number you'll see depends on you and your partner's anatomy. Each of you answers privately, then you discover where you match.

Your Sexual Style

9 questions

The preferences that define your sexual personality

During sex, what are you most focused on?
When it comes to sex, which do you prefer?
Put these in order of priorities for you during sex.
How comfortable are you adjusting your sexual preferences to meet a partner halfway?
Which best describes how desire shows up for you?
Outside of the bedroom, what actually puts you in the mood?
Which of these make it hard for you to get into sex?
When I'm stressed, sex is...
A sexual experience that doesn't end in orgasm can still feel complete and satisfying to me.

Setting & Atmosphere

10 questions

Music, lighting, mood, senses and context

Play music while having sex?
Light candles before sex?
Sex around the house?
Sex with the lights off?
Sex with the lights on?
Shower sex with your partner?
Sex in nature (garden, forest, beach)?
Does the chance of getting caught make sex more exciting for you?
Have sex in a car?
Have sex on a plane?

Touch & Play

16 questions

Touch and play are complete in themselves. Sometimes they lead somewhere, sometimes they're the destination

Give your partner a sensual massage?
Give your partner a foot massage?
Have a touch-only session (massage, making out, skin-to-skin) with an explicit agreement it won't go further?
Make out with no expectation of sex?
Touch or play with your partner's breasts?
More cuddling or aftercare after sex?
Have long, slow sessions with no set endpoint?
Watch porn together?
Watch your partner masturbate?
Masterbate together, side by side?
Take private intimate photos or videos with your partner?
Share intimate photos or videos online?

Talk & Communication

12 questions

Talking, feedback, initiation, and consent

Want to be more vocal during sex? (moaning, heavy breathing)
Send nude photos to your partner?
Eye contact with your partner during sex?
Talk about likes and dislikes with your partner?
Talk dirty to your partner?
Phone sex with your partner?
Want to initiate sex more often?
Would you like to have a safeword with your partner? Suggest a safeword in the notes below.

Appearance

16 questions

Grooming, clothing, and body art

Do you like your partner to be groomed or hair-free (legs, genitals, or armpits)?
Do you like your partner to be more natural or hairy (legs, genitals, or armpits)?
Do you like your partner having tattoos?
Do you like your partner having body piercings?
Do you like your partner having face piercings?
Do you like your partner having a nipple piercing?
Do you like your partner wearing lingerie?
Do you like your partner wearing leather or latex?

Logistics

6 questions

Timing, frequency, and making sex happen

How often do you and your partner currently have sex?
Ideally, how often would you like to have sex?
Schedule sex?
Have morning sex?
Create a sexual "to-do" list?
Use apps, lists, or guides to find new sex ideas?

Oral

9 questions

Giving and receiving oral

Give your partner oral sex?
69?
Cum on your partner's face or body?
Swallow your partner's cum?
Sit on your partner's face

Penetrative Play

14 questions

Positions, protection, and how things finish

Want to try new sexual positions?
Doggy-style sex?
Be on top more often?
Have sex standing up?
More foot play with your partner?
Sex on your period?
Have sex without condoms or barriers?
Finish inside your partner?
Use the pull-out method?

Intensity

9 questions

Intensity, passion and consensual rough play

Consensual pull your partner's hair?
Consensual bite your partner during sex?
Spank or slap your partner?
Rougher sex with your partner?
Scratch your partner during sex?

Butt stuff

11 questions

Anal play, curiosity, and related activities

Give anal sex (be the top)?
Finger your partner's butt?
Have your prostate stimulated (with a finger or toy)?
Give your partner a rim job?
Explore other anal toys with your partner?
Peg your partner?

Power Exchange & Sensation

16 questions

Exploring consensual power play, anticipation, and the psychological and embodied experiences that can arise through power exchange

Edge your partner?
Tell your partner exactly what to do in bed?
Tease your partner?
Be submissive during sex?
Blindfold your partner during sex?
Tie up or handcuff your partner?
Gently choke your partner during sex?
Cover or gag your partner's mouth?

Fantasy & Roleplay

7 questions

Scenarios, characters, and imaginative sex

Wear costumes, uniforms (like police, military, fireman), or masks during sex?
Role-playing scenarios (like teacher, nurse, repairman, or boss)?
Pretend your partner is a stranger?
Role-play power or resistance scenarios?
Pretend you are having a secret affair?
Do you like your partner cross-dressing?

Toys & Gear

9 questions

Sex toys, wearables, and accessories

Explore toys during sex?
Use a butt plug during sex?
Go to a sex shop or shop online for sex toys together?
Use a cock ring during sex?
Use a dildo or vibrator on your partner?
Wear a strap-on for your partner?

With Others

8 questions

Watching, or involving others, swinging, sex parties and consensual voyeurism

Go to a strip club with your partner?
Go to a nudist resort with your partner?
Three-some with your partner?
Watch your partner have sex with someone else?
Group sex with four or more people?
Watch your partner receive oral sex from someone else?

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