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Communication is the key to a good sex life.
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Your sex life deserves to be better
Discover your shared desires and learn your partner's preferences you might never think to ask
Rediscover your partner, uncover new desires, and bring fresh excitement back to your love life
Add some fun to your date night. Uncover your partner's fantasies and deepen your intimacy
Preferences change after big life events. Reconnect and keep intimacy alive
Reveal hidden interests, secret fantasies, and see where your desires overlap
Fun and easy way to start the conversation. Low pressure and no awkwardness
Designed by sex therapists to help you explore your desires and find something new to try together
The rhythm, priorities, and energy that define your sexual personality
8 questionsMusic, lighting, mood, and sexual environment
11 questionsMassage, touching, kissing, teasing, and physical intimacy
9 questionsTalking, feedback, initiation, and sexual communication
7 questionsGrooming, clothing, body modifications, and visual preferences
8 questionsTiming, planning, frequency, and making sex happen
9 questionsGiving, receiving, and finishing with oral sex
5 questionsSexual positions and body arrangements
9 questionsRoughness, passion, and physical intensity
6 questionsAnal play, curiosity, and related activities
6 questionsExploring control, anticipation, and heightened sensation
7 questionsScenarios, characters, and imaginative sex
7 questionsSex toys, wearables, and accessories
6 questionsThreesomes, groups, watching, or involving others
6 questionsIf you have questions, contact us
ThatSexQuiz.com is a sex quiz for couples. Each person answers the quiz separately. It will ask you questions about your sexual desires and preferences. Then you can see where you and your partner match. This is a great way to start a conversation, discover your shared desires, and find something new to try together.
The quiz is great for both new and long-term couples. Conversations about sex can be uncomfortable and people change over time. This is a great way to find your shared desires for the first time or spicy thing up in an existing relationship.
Most couples finish in about 10-15 minutes. Each person needs to complete the quiz separately. You can take the quiz on the same device one after the other. Or you can take it on different devices. You'll be given a private link to share with your partner.
After you quiz you will be able to see your results instantly.
When you sign up, you can choose to reveal all answers, or only answers where you both said "yes" or "maybe". Some questions ask open-ended follow-up questions. These will not be revealed to your partner if you both match or choose to reveal all answers.
By default, your results only show questions where both partners said "yes" or "maybe", so neither of you sees the other's non-matches. If you turn on "Share all answers", both partners will see every answer, including non-matches. We recommend sharing all answers because it leads to more open and honest communication, but it's entirely optional. This setting is chosen when you sign up and is shown clearly to both partners before they start the quiz.
This setting is locked once either partner starts the quiz. Both partners see clearly before answering whether all answers will be shared or only matches. They answer with that expectation, so changing it afterward would break the trust they agreed to. We've also had people try to access their partner's answers without consent. Because quizzes are anonymous, we have no reliable way to verify identities or confirm that both partners agree to a change. Locking the setting protects both partners' privacy and ensures the consent given at the start is respected.
Technically, yes. Someone could answer "yes" to every question to see all of their partner's answers. But if your partner is cheating on a simple quiz, you have bigger problems in your relationship. That said, we built a "reveal all answers" option you can toggle on when you start. It accomplishes the same thing, but both partners know up front how it works. We actually encourage couples to use this setting, because it opens the door to honest conversation about what you're both curious about. Better communication = better sex.
We take privacy seriously. Your connection is encrypted, we never sell or rent personal info, and we automatically permanently delete data after 90 days.
Yes. The quiz is free and basic results are free. You can pay to unlock the full results. This is a one-time purchase. Not a subscription. You will not be charged again - unlike some other quizzes that try to charge you monthly and hope you forget to cancel.
ThatSexQuiz.com was built with the help of licensed sex therapists. All questions were carefully crafted and are not generated by AI.
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