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Take the quiz separately. Explore results together.

1. Start the quiz

Enter some basic information about you and your partner to get started.

2. Take the quiz separately

You and your partner will take the quiz separately. You'll each get a quiz link so you can take the quiz on separate devices if you want.

3. See your matches together

You'll both see the same results. The results will show your shared sexual desires. The one's you don't match on will remain hidden.

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Everything You'll see

The list below contains all questions asked in our couples' comparison quiz. There are 9 categories and 148 questions.

  • Give a sensual massage to your partner?
  • Get a sensual massage from your partner?
  • Listen to music while having sex?
  • Talk dirty to your partner during sex?
  • Have your partner talk dirty to you during sex?
  • Be louder and more vocal during sex?
  • Have your partner be louder during sex?
  • Have sex without using protection?
  • Pull out?
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  • Have your partner pull out?
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  • Cum inside your partner?
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  • Have your partner cum inside you?
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  • Cum on your partner's face?
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  • Have your partner cum on your face?
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  • Cum on your partner's chest and stomach?
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  • Have your partner cum on your chest and stomach?
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  • Titty fuck your partner?
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  • Have your partner titty fuck you?
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  • Receive oral sex?
  • Give your partner oral sex?
  • Have your partner swallow your cum?
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  • Swallow your partner's cum?
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  • Role-play or wear costumes during sex?
  • Engage in Consensual Non-Consent?
  • Pretend you or your partner are much older?
  • Pretend you or partner are much younger?
  • Have your partner cross dress?
  • Cross dress?
  • Teacher role-play
  • Nurse role-play
  • Boss role-play
  • Repairman role-play
  • Maid role-play
  • Pretend your partner is a complete stranger?
  • Fantasy RPG role-play
  • Sci-fi or Space Alien role-play
  • Harry Potter role-play
  • Star Wars role-play
  • Lord of the Rings role-play
  • Game of Thrones role-play

  • Have anal sex?
  • Finger your partner anally?
  • Be anally fingered by your partner?
  • Give your partner analingus?
  • Have your partner give you analingus?
  • Have your partner peg you?
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  • Peg your partner?
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  • Explore anally stimulating your partner?
  • Explore having your partner anally stimulate you?

  • 69?
  • Try different sexual positions?
  • Do it doggy-style?
  • Do cowgirl?
  • Do reverse-cowgirl?
  • Do it with your partner's legs on your shoulder?
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  • Do it with your legs on your partner's shoulders?
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  • Have your partner on top more?
  • Be on top more?
  • Have sex standing up?
  • Install a "sex position of the day" app?
  • Get a copy of the Kama Sutra?
  • Make a sexual to-do list?

  • Be rougher towards your partner in the bedroom?
  • Have your partner be rougher towards you in the bedroom?
  • Pull your partner's hair during sex?
  • Have your hair pulled during sex?
  • Bite your partner during sex?
  • Be bitten during sex?
  • Choke your partner during sex?
  • Be choked during sex?
  • Scratch your partner during sex?
  • Be scratched during sex?
  • Tie-up or handcuff your partner during sex?
  • Be tied-up or handcuffed during sex?
  • Explore your submissive side with your partner?
  • Have your partner explore their submissive side with you?
  • Have your mouth covered or gagged during sex?
  • Have your partner's mouth covered or gagged during sex?
  • Force your partner to orgasm?
  • Be forced to orgasm by your partner?
  • Edge your partner?
  • Have your partner edge you?
  • Be blind folded during sex?
  • Blind fold your partner during sex?
  • Use handcuffs during sex?
  • Participate in impact play during sex? (whip, paddle, ...)
  • Spank or slap your partner during sex?
  • Have your partner spank or slap you during sex?
  • Have your partner wear leather or latex?
  • Wear leather or latex during sex?
  • Pee on your partner?
  • Be peed on by your partner?
  • Explore your dominant side with your partner?
  • Have your partner explore their dominant side with you?

  • Take nude or semi-nude pics of your partner?
  • Have your partner take nude or semi-nude pics of you?
  • Make a private sex tape together?
  • Watch porn together?
  • Use porn to show each other things you like?
  • Have shower sex?
  • Have sex when your partner is menstruating?
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  • Have sex while you are menstruating?
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  • Have sex more often?
  • Schedule sex?
  • Have sex multiple times in a row?
  • Have morning sex?
  • Have sex outside?
  • Have sex in a public place?
  • Have sex in a car?
  • Receive road head?
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  • Give road head?
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  • Do sexual stuff while driving?
  • Have sex in a library?
  • Post your private photos or videos online?
  • Go to a strip club together?
  • Have sex around the house?
  • Have phone sex?
  • Have your partner send you nude photos?
  • Send your partner nude photos?

  • Use a butt plug during sex?
  • Have your partner use a butt plug during sex?
  • Use long distance sex toys?
  • Shop at a sex store or webstore together?
  • Use toys during sex?
  • Use a cock ring during sex?
  • Use a strap-on during sex?
  • Use a dildo during sex?
  • Use nipple clamps?
  • Use a vibrator during sex?

  • Body hair
  • Hairy armpits
  • Shaved
  • Nipple piercings
  • Body piercings
  • Face piercings
  • Face tattoos
  • Body tattoos
  • Feet

  • Watch your partner be penetrated by another person?
  • Be penetrated by another person while your partner watches?
  • Watch your partner penetrate another person?
  • Penetrate another person while your partner watches?
  • Have a three-some?
  • Have group sex with more than three people?
  • Have a sexual "Hall Pass" sometimes?
  • Go to a nudest resort together?
  • Watch your partner receive oral sex from another person?
  • Receive oral sex while your partner watches?


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Everything you need to know

If there's anything we missed or you have a suggestion, please get in touch.

ThatSexQuiz.com is a sexual compatibility quiz for couples. The quiz is designed to facilitate communication and help couples discover their shared sexual desires in a fun and safe way.

When you answer a question on ThatSexQuiz.com, your partner will only see your answer if they are into the same thing - so it is safe to be completely honest.

ThatSexQuiz.com was created in 2016 to scratch a personal itch. At the time, I was in a new relationship. Since then, the site has gone through a lot of iterations, including having the quiz reviewed and questions completely rewritten by licensed therapists who specialize in relationships and sex.

Today, ThatSexQuiz.com continues to receive updates and new features. We hope it'll help you in your relationship. If you have a suggestion, please let us know.

Whether you are just starting out or you have been together for years, any couple can benefit from taking the quiz. ThatSexQuiz can help you discover your partner's fantasies for the first time or help you to spice-up and revive your sex life. People's sexual preferences change over time so feel free to take the quiz again!

In a healthy, long-term relationship, you'll eventually reach a point were communication with you partner feels safe and comfortable enough that you will be able to confidently and openly discuss your sexual desires without fear of embarrassment. Until that time, ThatSexQuiz.com is here you for.

The quiz takes just 10-15 minutes per person. You and your partner can take the quiz at the same time. No sign-up is required to get started.

Take the quiz when you are already feeling in the mood.

Yes, after the first person takes their quiz, they will be given a link to share with their partner. Using that link, your partner can take the quiz on any phone or computer. If you enter your email address we will email you when your results are ready.

It's true β€” your partner could select 'yes' to every single question, thus revealing all of the fantasies that you selected. If you partner is going to cheat on a little quiz, maybe you have bigger problems in your relationship.

No, that defeats the whole point of the quiz and there is no way for us to verify that both partners consent to revealing the unmatched answers.

Yes, it is free to take the quiz and view the results from the "basic" questions. To unlock and view the more advanced questions costs $9.95

Yes, your information is always private and confidential. We are committed to protecting your information. We do not share sensitive information with any third-parties. We encrypt all information that is sent from your computer to our server. In addition, all sensitive information is permanently deleted 90 days after completing your quiz. Click here to read the full privacy policy.

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