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HOW IT WORKS

Take the quiz separately. Explore results together.

1. Start the quiz

Enter some basic information about you and your partner to get started.

2. Take the quiz separately

You and your partner will take the quiz separately. You'll each get a quiz link so you can take the quiz on separate devices if you want.

3. See your matches together

You'll both see the same results. The results will show your shared sexual desires. The one's you don't match on will remain hidden.

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ALL QUESTIONS

Everything You'll see

The list below contains all questions asked in our couples' comparison quiz. There are 9 categories and 148 questions.

  • Give a sensual massage to your partner?
  • Get a sensual massage from your partner?
  • Listen to music while having sex?
  • Talk dirty to your partner during sex?
  • Have your partner talk dirty to you during sex?
  • Be louder and more vocal during sex?
  • Have your partner be louder during sex?
  • Have sex without using protection?
  • Pull out?
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  • Have your partner pull out?
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  • Cum inside your partner?
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  • Have your partner cum inside you?
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  • Cum on your partner's face?
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  • Have your partner cum on your face?
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  • Cum on your partner's chest and stomach?
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  • Have your partner cum on your chest and stomach?
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  • Titty fuck your partner?
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  • Have your partner titty fuck you?
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  • Receive oral sex?
  • Give your partner oral sex?
  • Have your partner swallow your cum?
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  • Swallow your partner's cum?
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  • Role-play or wear costumes during sex?
  • Engage in Consensual Non-Consent?
  • Pretend you or your partner are much older?
  • Pretend you or partner are much younger?
  • Have your partner cross dress?
  • Cross dress?
  • Teacher role-play
  • Nurse role-play
  • Boss role-play
  • Repairman role-play
  • Maid role-play
  • Pretend your partner is a complete stranger?
  • Fantasy RPG role-play
  • Sci-fi or Space Alien role-play
  • Harry Potter role-play
  • Star Wars role-play
  • Lord of the Rings role-play
  • Game of Thrones role-play

  • Have anal sex?
  • Finger your partner anally?
  • Be anally fingered by your partner?
  • Give your partner analingus?
  • Have your partner give you analingus?
  • Have your partner peg you?
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  • Peg your partner?
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  • Explore anally stimulating your partner?
  • Explore having your partner anally stimulate you?

  • 69?
  • Try different sexual positions?
  • Do it doggy-style?
  • Do cowgirl?
  • Do reverse-cowgirl?
  • Do it with your partner's legs on your shoulder?
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  • Do it with your legs on your partner's shoulders?
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  • Have your partner on top more?
  • Be on top more?
  • Have sex standing up?
  • Install a "sex position of the day" app?
  • Get a copy of the Kama Sutra?
  • Make a sexual to-do list?

  • Be rougher towards your partner in the bedroom?
  • Have your partner be rougher towards you in the bedroom?
  • Pull your partner's hair during sex?
  • Have your hair pulled during sex?
  • Bite your partner during sex?
  • Be bitten during sex?
  • Choke your partner during sex?
  • Be choked during sex?
  • Scratch your partner during sex?
  • Be scratched during sex?
  • Tie-up or handcuff your partner during sex?
  • Be tied-up or handcuffed during sex?
  • Explore your submissive side with your partner?
  • Have your partner explore their submissive side with you?
  • Have your mouth covered or gagged during sex?
  • Have your partner's mouth covered or gagged during sex?
  • Force your partner to orgasm?
  • Be forced to orgasm by your partner?
  • Edge your partner?
  • Have your partner edge you?
  • Be blind folded during sex?
  • Blind fold your partner during sex?
  • Use handcuffs during sex?
  • Participate in impact play during sex? (whip, paddle, ...)
  • Spank or slap your partner during sex?
  • Have your partner spank or slap you during sex?
  • Have your partner wear leather or latex?
  • Wear leather or latex during sex?
  • Pee on your partner?
  • Be peed on by your partner?
  • Explore your dominant side with your partner?
  • Have your partner explore their dominant side with you?

  • Take nude or semi-nude pics of your partner?
  • Have your partner take nude or semi-nude pics of you?
  • Make a private sex tape together?
  • Watch porn together?
  • Use porn to show each other things you like?
  • Have shower sex?
  • Have sex when your partner is menstruating?
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  • Have sex while you are menstruating?
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  • Have sex more often?
  • Schedule sex?
  • Have sex multiple times in a row?
  • Have morning sex?
  • Have sex outside?
  • Have sex in a public place?
  • Have sex in a car?
  • Receive road head?
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  • Give road head?
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  • Do sexual stuff while driving?
  • Have sex in a library?
  • Post your private photos or videos online?
  • Go to a strip club together?
  • Have sex around the house?
  • Have phone sex?
  • Have your partner send you nude photos?
  • Send your partner nude photos?

  • Use a butt plug during sex?
  • Have your partner use a butt plug during sex?
  • Use long distance sex toys?
  • Shop at a sex store or webstore together?
  • Use toys during sex?
  • Use a cock ring during sex?
  • Use a strap-on during sex?
  • Use a dildo during sex?
  • Use nipple clamps?
  • Use a vibrator during sex?

  • Body hair
  • Hairy armpits
  • Shaved
  • Nipple piercings
  • Body piercings
  • Face piercings
  • Face tattoos
  • Body tattoos
  • Feet

  • Watch your partner be penetrated by another?
  • Be penetrated by another while your partner watches?
  • Watch your partner penetrate another?
  • Penetrate another while your partner watches?
  • Have a three-some?
  • Have group sex with more than three people?
  • Have a sexual "Hall Pass" sometimes?
  • Go to a nudest resort together?
  • Watch your partner receive oral sex from another?
  • Receive oral sex while your partner watches?

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Everything you need to know

If there's anything we missed or you have a suggestion, please get in touch.

ThatSexQuiz.com is the most popular sexual compatibility quiz for couples on the internet! The quiz helps couples discover their shared sexual desires in a fun and safe way.

You take the quiz separately. Your answers are only revealed to your partner if you match on a question, so you can be totally honest without fear of embarrassment.

Our quiz was developed with the expertise from certified sexual therapists dedicated to enhancing intimacy between couples. If you have a suggestion, please let us know.

You and your partner will only see each other's answer if you both indicated interest in it.

There are 5 options for each question:

  • ๐Ÿคฎ (hate it)
  • ๐Ÿ˜• (dislike)
  • ๐Ÿคท (shrug/meh) - means "If my partner wants to" or "we already do that". This WILL show up as a match.
  • ๐Ÿ˜€ (like it)
  • ๐Ÿ˜ (love it)

If either of you answers ๐Ÿ˜• (dislike), ๐Ÿคฎ (hate it), or leaves a question blank, that answer will be completely excluded from the results page. This ensures that neither of you will feel embarrassed, upset, or uncomfortable if one person answers ๐Ÿคฎ (hate it) and the other answers ๐Ÿ˜ (love it).

A question is considered a match if you and your partner both answer ๐Ÿคท (shrug/meh), ๐Ÿ˜€ (like it), or ๐Ÿ˜ (love it). Any combination will count as a match. For example, if you answer ๐Ÿ˜ (love it) and your partner answers ๐Ÿคท (shrug/meh), it will show up in the results.

If either of you answers ๐Ÿ˜• (dislike), ๐Ÿคฎ (hate it), or leaves a question blank, that answer will be completely excluded from the results page. This ensures that neither of you will feel embarrassed, upset, or uncomfortable if one person answers ๐Ÿคฎ (hate it) and the other answers ๐Ÿ˜ (love it).

The quiz takes just 10-15 minutes per person. You and your partner can take the quiz at the same time. No sign-up is required to get started.

It's possibleโ€”your partner could answer ๐Ÿ˜ (love it) to every single question, revealing all the fantasies you selected. However, if your partner is cheating on a simple quiz, you have bigger problems in your relationship.

No, that would defeat the purpose of the quiz. We cannot verify that both partners consent to revealing unmatched answers so we will NEVER reveal the answers - even if you contact us and say both partners want to share their answers. If you want to share the answers with your partner, take the quiz together!

The quiz is free to take. Results of the "basic" questions will be revealed for free. It costs $20 to unlock the full results.

Yes, your information is always private and confidential. We are committed to protecting your information. We do not share sensitive information with any third-parties. We encrypt all information that is sent from your computer to our server. In addition, all sensitive information is permanently deleted 90 days after completing your quiz. Click here to read the full privacy policy.

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